Dorothy St. Felix Jackson, the youngest daughter of Sir
Thomas Jackson and his wife Amelia, was born in 1887. Like her father, she
loved sports, and allegedly was a wicked golfer and a good shot with a rifle. I
have a photo of her as a young woman wearing men’s riding gear, but I am in
Ireland right now, away from home, and can’t access it. Julian Currie shared it
with me in 2006, on one of my earlier visits. Unfortunately, I have since lost
touch with Julian. He was one of the great-grandsons of Sir Thomas Jackson.
Instead, here is a photo that was shared by another great-grandson of Sir
Thomas Jackson, Pat Roberts.
Pat.
One remarkable thing about how Dorothy lived her life was
that she was a lesbian living openly with her partner Dorothy Fitch at Barony House (or cottage), Glengarriff, Co. Cork . She lived there for several decades, in such a way that she bridged not only the
sexual divide, but also the faith divide. Thomas Jackson, one of her great
nephews, told me that when she died in 1964, her Catholic pall bearers bore her
hearse to the doorway of the Church of Ireland, where her Protestant friends
then took over. She is buried there in the Protestant graveyard, but I have yet
to make my way to Glengarriff to see it for myself. Her partner, Dorothy Fitch,
died sometime around 1985.
The way that both
Dorothies handled the legacies in their respective estates speaks volumes about
how much family mattered to them. Dorothy J left much of her estate to her
partner, Dorothy F. (as one might expect), but when Dorothy F. died a couple of
decades after Dorothy J. (it is confusing that they are both named Dorothy!), Dorothy
F. arranged for trusts to be set up for several of the Jackson grand-nieces and
nephews.
We also know
that Dorothy J. had at least one other serious love in her life: Phyllis Keyes.
Phyllis, was the daughter of Sir Roger Keyes, an admiral in the British navy who had been born in
India. Her brother
Geoffrey got a VC for trying to kill Rommel in Northern Africa. Given the
army background of the family, and also the army background of several of
Dorothy’s brothers, perhaps this is how they met. One other possibility is that
they met through the Woolf family connections in Hong Kong. Bella Sydney Woolf,
sister of Leonard Woolf and hence sister-in-law to the author Virginia Woolf
married the Hong Kong Colonial Secretary, Tom Southorn. Also,
Leonard Woolf would have been in Hong Kong when the Jacksons were there. More
work is needed on this front.
Phyllis, born
in 1880 and seven years older than Dorothy, was on the periphery of
the Bloomsbury group. One can assume that even though Dorothy seems to have
been more sporty than artistic, that she would have socialized with at least
some of their members. They were a group of artists and writers who lived with a
more fluid approach to gender and sexuality than was common in much of British
culture at the time.
There is lot more about Phyllis and her pottery available on
line, but it also seems clear that she was probably bisexual. At one point, she
got so besotted with Duncan Grant, a
potter who she both worked and socialized with in the 1930s, that his wife
Vanessa Bell finally composed a letter on her husband’s behalf asking Phyllis
to back off. As far as Duncan was concerned, they were just friends.
Phyllis Keyes family had Irish connections, and I do
not know if Dorothy Fitch’s did as well. In fact, I know absolutely nothing
about Dorothy Fitch. I also do not know what initially took Dorothy Jackson to
Glengarriff, only that the Valuation records show her there as early as 1929. Her
sister, Amy Oliver Lloyd also mentions visiting her that year: We
went to Ireland for a fortnight at Easter to Glengarriff, Co. Cork.... Dot
& Honor Hamilton there. We did a lot of boating in the summer. Honor Hamilton owned the house where she
and Dorothy J. lived at that point. Was she also a lover? I don’t know. A
decade later, Amy’s son Richard also visited: Richard] had previously spent his usual fortnight’s holiday as Dot’s
guest in Glengarriff with Bill Croom.
I have so much more to learn, but given the
events of today – here in Ireland - I
want to honour Dorothy, and make sure that I write her into the family history,
at least to the extent that I am able. Were she alive today, I know how she
would vote YES!, and I also know that should the vote succeed, that would toast
its passage with a more than generous tote of good Irish Whiskey.
Update: December 30, 2020. FITCH is not a common name in Ireland. She may have been the Dorothy FITCH recorded in the 1901 Irish Census. She was age 24 (b. abt 1877 (age 24) born in England. She taught English at an orphanage and industrial school at Mount St. Vincent Convent on Military Road, in the townland of Prior's-Land,, St. Michael's Parish, Limerick City, Co. Limerick. As to why they chose to live at Glengarriff? It is possibly because the family of Alan Skuse, the husband of Dorothy Jackson's cousin Maud Martha Elizabeth Reed, had lived at Glengarriff for at least two generations. Alan and Maud Skuse died childless. Of course, it is also only a 15 minute drive from Bantry, a town thick with Jackson history - some of which likely includes Dorothy Jackson's ancestors.